One common question most women readers of my blog ask me is about how to help their boyfriends to overcome their premature ejaculation to make them last longer in bed.Let me answer in detail in this post.
When it comes to premature ejaculation treatment and premature ejaculation exercise the most peculiar thing to note is the man is practicing with a human being,his wife or girlfriend;Unlike in other exercises where he practices with a tool or machine.So it’s not just about how the man feels,it’s also about how he makes his women feel also.Most premature ejaculation ebooks and videos don’t teach this social part of taking care of their girlfriends emotion.It is very important for a man who is under premature ejaculation treatment to inform what he is doing to the women before they practice in bed.Otherwise the women’s reaction can range from ‘feeling bored’ to calling you a’ freak’.There is a smooth way to inform your girlfriend that you will be doing certain things that may seem weird but will help you to overcome your premature ejaculation problem.We will be talking about that in a separate post.Here we will just discuss the different ways a women can be useful for her boyfriend to overcome his PE problem.
1.Love your man and make sure that you let him know that you love him.
2.Let him know that you can wait till he gets rid of his premature ejaculation Problem.Tell him often that the Problem is Temporary and that good days are ahead.
3.Stay positive,feel good and make him feel good.Let him know that it’s okay if he prematurely ejaculates during intercourse while he is learning to overcome his premature ejaculation problem.
(The above points are the more obvious ones…let’s get a little bit more in to detail now…)
4.Understand the buttons that will drive your man to the sexual peak and learn to press them at the right time.For example if whispering his name in his ears drives him crazy learn not to do it when he is Trying hard to control his ejaculation.The exact time to whisper his name in his ears will be when after he successfully stops his ejaculation and he is trying to get back in to the action again.
5.Experiment and find a vibrator that you are comfortable with.If you haven’t tried already…Having a man to massage your body with vibrator will be a new and unforgettable experience for you.For him it takes pressure of his penis since he is aware that he can sexually satisfy his women with the vibrator if the penis fails him.
6.Tell him that you sometimes love to have it shorter as well.
