One of my forum member wrote to me with his experiments on overcoming premature ejaculation…The following was the discussion between few of our members in the Premature ejaculation forum.
Alen said….
I am trying a new procedure which I invented myself to overcome Premature Ejaculation, and it’s based on the Master’s and Johnson “squeeze” technique. I rememeber I had a major bed wetting problem that lasted a lot longer than most kids, and at age 10 my mother took me to a doctor and he installed a metal blanket on my bed that would sound an alarm when I wet my bed. My mother would run into the bedroom, and put me in the shower and run cold water on me. Well needless to say, after a couple of weeks I stopped wetting the bed. I am now apply that thinking to overcome Premature Ejaculation. When I masturbate, just when I get to the point of climaxing, i bite my tongue with my teeth and that sends a mild yet painful shock to my body. I am now conditioning my body that “ejaculation” is “bad”, or at least it seems to be letting me control the ejaculation a lot better, from a few minutes to 10 or 20 minutes, so now my body seems to control it. Once I start having sexual relations again, I’ll report back to everyone and tell you if it worked!
Kirk said…
Yes, please do keep us informed. Your method reminds me somewhat of a hypnosis tape I bought that claims to overcome Premature Ejaculation. It seemed kind of wacky, but as I recall the hypnotic suggestion was to think of something very sad when approaching ejaculation. I mean not just anything, but a particular sad thing the hypnotist described on the tape. I tried one of those hypnosis tapes I sometimes try to think of awful things when I am about to ejaculate, like family members in coffins and babies dying, but that is just no fun, I think that idea about the shock therapy makes a lot of sense, I will be curious to see if it works, where do I buy a “zapper” so I can try it myself?
Tim says….
I am convinced PE has a lot to do with childhood practices. I used to masturbate as a teenager, and this of course was considered very “taboo”, and I only had so much time to do it before someone walked in and I got caught, so I always tried to do it quickly, I am sure this has a lot to do with it, the trick now is to re-wire my brain and body!
Joe says…
So-called experts used to state – i.e., hypothesize — that such rushed early experiences are a factor in Premature Ejaculation
. However, factual studies have failed to find any differences between men with Premature Ejaculation
and men without Premature Ejaculation regarding their history of hurried masturbation, etc. What I do think is true is that men who have a normal physiological capacity to learn to control the timing of ejaculation sometimes start off learning to ejaculate quickly. But they can also learn to delay ejaculation. That’s probably why about 30 percent of men who follow the standard behavioral treatment for PE (stop-start, pause, squeeze, whatever) are successful. But most men with Premature Ejaculation
have nervous systems that make it very difficult if not impossible to control the timing of ejaculation. Hope that you’re in the 30 percent.
